Female psychology
Ending Romantic Self-Sabotage
When Your Brain Works Against Your Heart You have built a solid, often demanding, sometimes
29 January 2026
For 23 years, I have been guiding accomplished men and women in their pursuit of love. The Lovethèque is the natural extension of my work as a matchmaker and love coach: a place where I share with you the keys to an enlightened approach to relationships, whether it’s preparing for your first meeting, gaining a deeper understanding of yourself, or refining your vision of commitment. Through my articles, I analyze the underlying mechanisms that influence our romantic choices, often without us even realizing it. I explore with you these invisible patterns that can lead to relational dead ends, and I provide concrete tools to help you build a love life aligned with your values and ambitions. Every week, you will discover new advice, thoughtful reflections, and practical exercises to support your personal growth and accelerate your understanding of yourself and others. The Lovethèque is also yours: feel free to share the topics you would like to see explored. Because the excellence you cultivate in your career deserves to shine equally in your love life.
Valérie Bruat
Love Coach
When Your Brain Works Against Your Heart You have built a solid, often demanding, sometimes brilliant professional trajectory, one that taught you how to anticipate, decide quickly, master complex environments and secure every variable before committing fully and yet, the moment love enters the picture, that same strategic intelligence seems to turn against you, as […]
… When Your Brain Works Against Your Heart You have built a solid, often demanding, sometimes
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