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Why Are Men No Longer Making the First Move?
For a long time, the scenario seemed almost written in advance: the man approached, initiated
10 September 2026
For 23 years, I have been guiding accomplished men and women in their pursuit of love. The Lovethèque is the natural extension of my work as a matchmaker and love coach: a place where I share with you the keys to an enlightened approach to relationships, whether it’s preparing for your first meeting, gaining a deeper understanding of yourself, or refining your vision of commitment. Through my articles, I analyze the underlying mechanisms that influence our romantic choices, often without us even realizing it. I explore with you these invisible patterns that can lead to relational dead ends, and I provide concrete tools to help you build a love life aligned with your values and ambitions. Every week, you will discover new advice, thoughtful reflections, and practical exercises to support your personal growth and accelerate your understanding of yourself and others. The Lovethèque is also yours: feel free to share the topics you would like to see explored. Because the excellence you cultivate in your career deserves to shine equally in your love life.
Valérie Bruat
Love Coach
For a long time, the scenario seemed almost written in advance: the man approached, initiated the conversation, suggested a date, and took the risk of showing his interest. The woman, meanwhile, could wait, observe, let herself be courted… and then decide whether she wanted to take things further. But today, many single women are noticing […]
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